Deciding What You Want to do With Your Life

I’ve had this post in mind since starting my blog, it’s a lot to do with why I’m here writing my posts and why I’m studying Media and Public Relations. I’m going to tell you some of the ways in which you can realise what it is you want to do with your life — from my experience.

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In this weeks #PowerandInfluence with Ella Minty, we saw Teela Clayton discussing her switch from teaching to public relations. Just like many people she came to a point in life where she wasn’t happy with her career and decided to make a change. It happened with my mum when she changed from High Court Enforcement to teaching assistant.

For me, as a 21-year old, I switched my path straight after finishing my degree. My undergraduate degree was in Maths with Management. Sometimes it would excite me, but the majority of the time I had a constant thought that it is not an area I wanted to work in. It was too dull for me, I needed something that’s going to bring different experiences and opportunities.

Back when I was in school I had an obsession with working in the fashion industry, I didn’t know where or how, but the one thing I knew was that I could never be a designer (sewing machines hate me). So, I put that idea aside and went with what I was good at, maths. I don’t regret picking it because at the time I loved maths too and at least I gave it a shot, right.

Anyway, below are a few suggestions of mine as to how you can come to realise what exactly it is that you want to do with your life.

What did you want to do when you were a teenager?

Like I previously said, I had this constant reminder in my head that I’ve wanted to work in fashion ever since I was in school. We often think that the dreams we had as a child were just dreams, but you can make them a reality. I didn’t know exactly how I could make my way into the fashion industry, but since being at university I’ve learnt a lot of different elements that are involved within the fashion industry, so I looked into it to see where best I’d fit in. For me, I’m hoping it will be PR!

What are you good at?

Don’t know what industry you want to work in? Sometimes it can help to pin point everything you’re good at and going from there. I love communicating to people, meeting new people and representing groups. When I was younger I would work at the school open days and it’s the same now I’m at university. For the last two years I have been a co-president of two different university societies, being the voice of a group of people is something I’ve enjoyed doing.

So, from this I began to look into industries that include this skill and passion. Now, there are a few, but I looked at the PR Master’s course at Newcastle University and found that a lot of the content described these skills that I was good at and can help me turn them into a career. I found that I also love organising events, which can fall under PR, this was something I didn’t know yet.

What careers you want to learn more about?

List the careers you want to learn more about. I did this when the first idea in my head was to work in the fashion industry. If there are a few areas that interest you, take your time to learn about each of them. This will help you narrow down the list and determine which career you’re truly interested in.

For example, for the fashion industry I looked into magazine editorial, styling, advertising, social media and PR. I read articles, interviews, job descriptions and much more to evaluate skill sets and job responsibilities. I linked my skills to the skills that these jobs required. I also looked into the job descriptions to see whether it was something that I could do day in day out.

What makes you happy?

Throughout my university life every time I spoke to mum about my degree she would always remind me to do what makes me happiest. If that meant changing degrees then so be it. I was half way through second year when it started to sink in that I didn’t really want to study maths. But by that point I was determined to finish because at the end of the day a maths degree is still a good degree to have.

I’m happy I stuck with it, but I’m much happier now I’m studying PR. Every time we learn something new, or I take on a new module, I visualise my future much more than I did when I was studying maths. That makes me happy because I’m no longer stuck with the uncertainty about where my life was heading.

You have the right to do whatever makes you happy, it is your life and you may as well live it in the best way possible for you (that was deep I know).

These are all steps I took to help determine what I wanted to do with my life. Hopefully, they’ll help you get some sort of idea too. There’s lots of other things you can find on the internet that will help (we all love a career quiz or two). One thing I can say is, and I’m sure others will back me on this, trust your gut.

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